Just Saying!

I get so frustrated when people try and tell you how you should be a grandparent! And these people aren't even grandparents yet themselves. We have 19 grandchildren and 10 children between Tim and I. And we always hear the same complaint from some of the kids. You don't make time for my kids, you don't go to this, you don't do that, you don't come and get them and bring them home. We don't have gas money to come visits you. We don't call you because we are waiting for you to call us. Oh it was your birthday, sorry I forgot, but what did you get us for our birthday, because I am pretty sure we are going to call you later and complain!
I don't like how you are being a grandparent so don't send a gift to my child, I don't need a holiday grandparent!
So there you have it, this only reflects some of our kids! From the others we hear, just called to see how you are doing. Your sick do you need anything. We really appreciate you! Thank you! Love you! Thank you Nana and Papaw we love the gift!
Nana and Papaw do you want to do something next week, Mom and Dad do you want to come have dinner. Mom and Dad we are coming for a visit open the gate!
So really, Who would you want to be around? I'm just saying!